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Working with love and joy even when it is challenging

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 The last three years have been enormously challenging and at the same time filled with so many enlightening experiences and lessons. I learnt how to fully transition my work to online spaces. I learnt how to be brave and work during the dark days of the pandemic even when I was tired, demotivated and fearful. I learnt to find the blessing in illness when I was hospitalised with Covid Pneumonia in 2021 during one of my busiest work years when I was probably overworking myself and needed a rest. I learnt to self heal and revitalise myself to begin to work again post the illness but finding new ways to be with myself and be with the work.  All of this would not have been possible if I were not surrounded with the love of family, friends and colleagues - my phone became my lifeline once I was better enough to be able to communicate once more. Colleagues  stepped in to do some of my work when I couldn't. Medical staff, fellow patients, family and friends did so much for me an...

Swimming in a sea of change - the exhilarating work of facilitating organisational transformation

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A few years ago I facilitated a workshop for an organisation that I was accompanying through a transformation process. At the end of the workshop I gave the group an individual reflection exercise in nature and fortunately we were at a most beautiful beach resort so I took the opportunity to find a place of rest and do some reflection of my own. I found myself pushing my feet into the lovely therapeutic beach sand and watching the waves and thinking what a wonderful analogy the ocean presents us with about transformation and change. More recently I went to the beach with a friend after a long hiatus and jumped and swam in the fresh blue ocean allowing the waves to bash against me and it was the most exhilarating feeling - I felt refreshed and energised.  This is exactly the work of facilitating transformation in organisations. When visiting the beach you have to be willing to embrace and step into nature, get sand in your feet, trust even though you may not know what lies bene...

Transformation: Resilience, Tenacity and the Art of never giving up

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Facilitating Race and Transformation Processes Vision board done in 2018 I have been doing race and transformation work most of my life, but professionally as a facilitator now for about 10 years and as an organisational development practitioner for 17 years. I became an activist at the age of 10 after the 1976 riots and the area around our school was under siege from apartheid police forces –  At the same time my primary school teacher provided most of my formative political education in essence providing our young minds with much needed decolonized education - my first act of activism was to distribute pamphlets for boycotting Fattis and Monis, a food company that was treating its workers unfairly.  My grandfather Dr Norman Murison, a community doctor and banned activist in the 1960’s was the other person beside my parents Norma Tobin and Ernest Tobin who were conscientising me and showing me what the apartheid government was doing to our people and our cou...

Expressing our fragility and becoming vulnerable together – the joint work of transformation around racial inequality

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How do we begin to heal as a nation? How do we begin to truly ‘see’ each other? Sharing the pain, sharing the hurts, getting angry? We are all wounded in different ways – we carry the pain in different ways and we express it in different ways! In the movie ‘Colour of Fear’ (a documentary about a race based process) by Stirfry Productions they quote Rumi who says: The cure for the pain is in the pain. Most of my work as a transformation facilitator has been about this – sitting in circles with people, allowing them to share their feelings and emotions, become angry, share rawness, cry and be sad, vent and be mad, express love and joy, laugh and be silly. This catharsis has been powerful for those involved. My realization as a facilitator has been about the power of just holding a space for each other (which forms a huge part of the process), not having to answer, argue or present any viewpoint and debate – but just to merely share our personal experiences and stories and listen. T...

Workshop: Leading and Facilitating Transformation in Organisations: 6-8 Dec 2017 (Cape Town)

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Purpose of this course:  We are being called upon to transform from the personal to the organizational level – for many this is new territory! For those leading – new ways of being and doing is required. For those facilitating –new approaches and methods are needed. This workshop is about finding a deeper form of engagement with diversity and transformation processes in organisations as well as exploring the inner work required at a personal level. We have to move beyond the rhetoric and ‘just talking about it’. This workshop will emphasize the  doing  of transformation so that any one no matter where they are in an organisational system can initiate change and transformation. Venue: The CDRA Centre ( www.cdra.org.za ) -  52-54 Francis street, Woodstock Dates:  Wednesday 6 Dec  (9.30am – 4.30pm) , Thursday 7 Dec  (9.30am – 4.30pm),  Friday 8 Dec  (9.30am – 1.30 pm) Cost: R3000 per person  To register mail  desireepaul...

The work of transformation

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Some thoughts from my work this month of October: I have worked with NGO leaders, Organisational development practitioners, Students, Lecturers, Educators - the processes I have facilitated have happened in an international school exploring what transformation and diversity means, a course on facilitating transformation in organisations, a university honours course on organisational management,a university first year course on diversity exploring diversity in organisations, a university engineering faculty exploring decolonisation, a corporate investment company diversity training programme. The work of diversity and transformation whether individual or organisational is a continuous journey that takes one deep within and challenges us to collectively find meaning together. The work is about the redefining of humanity out of a deeply divided and fragmented, unequal, violent, constrained past to building one that is peaceful, free, whole, equal, connected and coherent. It i...

A new initiative: Africa Spirals of Change

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AFRICA SPIRALS OF CHANGE  Africa Spirals of Change contributes to the strengthening and transformation of teams and organisations. We do this by tapping into collective wisdom and courageous integrity assisting them to become more authentic, purposeful and effective in their vision and mission in the world. Our processes revitalize, renew and harness individual and organisational energy, knowledge, expertise and skills from within. This contributes to improving the lives of individuals and organisations on our continent and beyond its borders. AFRICA SPIRALS OF CHANGE Africa Spirals of Change contributes to the strengthening and transformation of teams and organisations. We do this by tapping into collective wisdom and courageous integrity assisting them to become more authentic, purposeful and effective in their vision and mission in the world. Our processes revitalize, renew and harness individual and organisational energy, knowledge, expertise and skills from within....